This weekend me and Ernie felt like a couple of teenagers, who’s parents went out of town (our kids were with the exe’s).
We played board games and stayed up watching movies all night. We went downtown for a romantic night out and had a finger-licking dinner at McCormick & Schmick’s.
We walked through the streets of Houston that night, taking turns sharing happy romantic memories and dreaming of what it might be like to live downtown, once the kids are grown up.


That evening reminded me how aligned and happy I feel in my marriage… and the very reason why I am so passionate in helping other woman avoid heartache and attract a partner who matches their ability to give and receive love.

And this is why today on the blog I wanted to talk about one of the traps that even smart conscious woman fall into, when it comes to dating and relationships…. The “Fixer upper” syndrome.


Let me ask you….


– Do you find yourself being attracted to man who are not good for you (or the ones you can’t have)?

– And…. do you find the great ones boring?

If that’s you, watch the video below to understand what is often referred to as the “fixer upper syndrome,” but also known as the “savior syndrome,” “building castles in the sky,” or “wearing rose colored glasses”.

Today, we’ll sort this common love block out, so that you can avoid this trap and attract (and be attracted to) a higher quality partner.


The “Fixer Upper” Syndrome in DATING

and relationships {and how to remedy it ….}



I am filling spots to work with me this spring. I currently have 2 open spots opening to work with me 1-on-1.

Is 2020 your year to call in the kind of partner who is aligned with your deepest values?

Done with frantic Googling, edutaining and DYI solutions when it comes to THE most important area of your life (your love life)?

If that’s you, you are going to love my signature “Tap Into Love” program!

This program is a 6 month 1-on-1 VIP coaching/tapping experience designed to help conscious women bring in a connected, supportive, and committed relationship (even after bad break up or divorce). During our time together we’ll dive deep to uncover and release unhealthy love patterns and use Faster EFT to seal the changes.

Here are the top RESULTS people get out of working with me:

– Attract a committed, deep, and connected life partner.

– Move past a divorce/break up, so you can heal old wounds and create a healthy foundation for a future relationship.

– Fall in love with yourself and learn how to truly CONNECT with YOU.

– Get clarity on how to date in a modern world, so that you don’t waste your time and energy with non-committed partners .

– Clear relationship fears, such as fear of intimacy, rejection and betrayal, so you no longer attract emotionally unavailable men.


If you would like my help in uncovering and releasing your limiting love blocks so that you can attract the kind of partner you want and deserve, let’s talk!


Apply for your free 30-min introductory consultation here.


Can’t wait to help you tap into your best relationship yet 😘


All my love,


P.P.S. Missed some of my recent blog posts? No stress! Below are the links to catch up. They are great addition to your morning walk or something to have in your earbuds as you dealing with that laundry or washing dishes 🙂

Episode #154: Why Faster EFT works well for dating and relationships

Episode #153: How do I know if he is the one (or at least, worth exploring) once I start dating?

Episode #152: 4 Things I recommend ,my clients do before they go back to dating

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