“To forgive simply means to give up any hope that the past could have been any different.” ~ Oprah
If you’ve ever been in an intimate relationship, chances are, you have been hurt.
As we get close to someone, get intimate, our inner world becomes more visible and old unhealed wounds resurface.
In our society we have a great misconception about healing and holding on to the past. Many of us believe (consciously or subconsciously) that our fears protect us. In reality, they attract the same patterns over and over.
If you are having a hard time forgiving someone (or thinking that they do no deserve forgiveness), consider this:
Forgiveness is not about the other person at all. It just releases YOU from the memory.
You do the forgiveness work for YOURSELF, to free yourself from the burden of carrying old memories and resentments.
It doesn’t mean it wasn’t a bad experience.
It doesn’t mean that they were right and you were wrong.
It doesn’t mean you should not be upset about it.
It does mean: You are choosing to release it, so you no longer have to carry it.
When it comes to relationships, forgiveness works magic, and it’s honestly the best form of energetic decluttering.
Here is what to do next:
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