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Should I stay or should I go? 4 steps for making a GOOD relationship decision.
I was in a relationship limbo for years... Looking back now, it’s hard for me to even comprehend, why in a world would I stay in a toxic marriage for over 8 years...But that was my right of passage, the one that yelled more wiser, authentic and truer version of...

The #4 Video {Limiting Belief #4:: “The Upper Limit Problem}
Hello gorgeous!And welcome to the last video from my BRAND NEW series on subconscious blocks to love. I’ve created this series to help you understand the hidden reasons why {even smart} women stay single and out of love. By the way, if you missed the first 3 videos,...

{Limiting Beliefs Series} Video #3: Why we always marry one of our parents
Welcome back to The Limiting Beliefs in Relationships Video Series. Today we’ll continue to recognize, process and release blocks and subconscious traps, that keep even smart woman single and stuck. In video #3 of the series, we are addressing our childhood...

Limiting Belief #2:: “The Fixer Upper Syndrome”
Today I am sharing the second video from my BRAND NEW video series on subconscious blocks to love. I’ve created this series to help you understand the hidden reasons why {even smart} women stay single and out of love. By the way, if you missed the first video:...

4 Hidden Relationship Blocks That Keep Even Smart Women Single and Out of Love
I am sooo very excited to share a BRAND NEW video series on subconscious blocks to love. For the next 4 weeks, you’ll get a new video from me with tapping and coaching insights to help you understand the hidden reasons why women stay single and out of love. The...

Why feeling ANGRY could be a GOOD thing?
A few days ago, I got a message from one of the women in our “Tap into Love” .She asked: ‘Olga, I've noticed that I am afraid to feel anger toward my partner... it’s very frustrating...Why do I feel this way? Have you had any experience with this? Thank you!”This is...

7 Habits of Extraordinarily Happy Couples
Next time you have an argument with your partner or spouse, consider this:About 90% of that argument has nothing to do with what you are fighting about.Yep, that includes things like unwashed dishes, lost socks, promised but unfinished errands, multiple reminders of...

Done settling? The subtle difference between “settling” and “accepting”.
My clients often ask: “Olga, you are asking me to accept things as they are. But does’t it contradict the very nature of wanting things to be different? Isn't it settling?” “How can I accept something that is unacceptable? This thing that happened to me, his behavior,...

Been single for years and wondering if it’s too late? Today we’ll sort it out”
Being single has its perks. I remember being a single mom and part of me felt very liberating and very free because I can make all the decisions by myself. I have a lot of free time and I do not have to check with anyone on my schedule. Plus, studies shows, that...

What Rihanna teaches us about emotionally abusive relationships…
Addiction to drama is stronger than addiction to caffeine, nicotine, alcohol, drugs or, yes, even sugar (and I bet you thought : “No way, nothing is more addictive than sugar”). If you are addicted to drama, you will always (consciously or subconsciously) attract an...

Toxic people in your life. Is it better to have no contact?
No matter how much you “work on yourself” and “heal your patterns,” you’ll have people in your life who will push your buttons. Whether you are dealing with your annoying ex, an ex of your current partner, your parent, or colleague, or even a neighbor who irritates...

Four Things that Helped me Move Past a Toxic Relationship (Plus a special invitation)
A couple weeks ago, I reached out to my amazing community (you) and asked what you would like most to learn from me when it comes to clearing the debris of a toxic relationship. Whether you are getting over an ex, moving past an emotionally abusive marriage, or...

3 reasons to start healing BEFORE getting into a new relationship
Quote of the Week:A couple of weeks ago, Ernie and I got into a big argument. It was over a piece of paper: our credit report and mainly had to do with some things on HIS report. The reason his score was lower than expected had to do with someone else and wasn’t...

Ten signs that you are with an emotionally abusive person
Quote of the Week:“If they don't love, support and appreciate you, they don’t deserve you. Find someone with better taste who will” ~ Robert G SmithI’ve gotten so many great responses to my inquiry on how to heal from an abusive or toxic relationship. Thank you so...

How to ask for what you want in an intimate relationship
Last week was a bit turbulent, as myself and Ernie were in the midst of conflict. At that time, I was getting ready to re-record Module 5: How to communicate your needs of my Tap into Love program. It’s like the timing ‘could not be better’, and I was sitting there...