Before we dive into today’s blog and video I have a quick personal story, I want to let you in on:

I know I shared quite a bit with you about my former marriage and my ex… what I have not shared, is the fact that my ex husband has done some HORRIBLE things …

The year we got divorced, he had broken into my house, trespassed on my property and had stolen from me. MULTIPLE TIMES. Despite the fact that I filed a police report, there was not enough evidence, so I had to let it go.

All of this was going on while I was trying to raise two little kids, run a business and just keep my life from falling apart…

The reason why I am talking about this NOW is that I just recently realized that I have a nearly zero emotional reaction thinking about those pretty scary things that took place in my past.

I am not triggered, upset or bothered by that and I believe this is one of the biggest gifts that I now have a responsibility to share with others: how to heal past traumatic memories and experiences.

It hit me when I was watching another coach sharing her personal story of a bad divorce from many years ago, and I could tell: she still has an open wound there…


Robert G Smith said it best:

“Memories buried alive NEVER DIE, they just come back in a different pair of shoes usually bigger and uglier ones”


I can honestly tell you that if not for Faster EFT, I would probably completely break down back then…

Instead, that same year of 2017, I’ve lost 30 lb, went back to dating and met an amazing guy, I am honored to call my husband now.

I often get asked: How were you able to get your life back on track after such a TRAUMATIC DIVORCE ?

This is exactly why I’ve created this mini tapping training: to share how to heal after bad break up/divorce, through changing memories, so that you can get your life back and create a happier and healthier relationship moving forward.


If you have not grabbed your copy yet, here is the link to get it.

FREE Training: How to Change Hurtful Memories with Tapping

Watch the video in the training, and follow the steps. It’s pretty self explanatory and straight forward. I honestly desire that all people acquire the skill of being able to change the bad memories.



And now on to this week’s blog: 4 things I recommend my clients to do before going back to dating”

Today’s video was inspired by a conversation I had with a client. As we were working through some fears, limiting beliefs and blocks, she has naturally started to notice that men are starting to appear in her life.

This one was recorded over a year ago, but i never really got a chance to share with you, my gorgeous email subscribers. So, today is the day 🙂

In the video I am sharing a few things that will help you prepare for the kind of dating that brings joy vs headaches and heartaches.


In this video:

  • Why your mindset determines 80% of your dating experiences
  • Why decluttering on many levels (physical, emotional and time wise) will create space for love in your life
  • What is ‘practice dating’ and how it will help you feel more comfortable and confident on an actual date with a man.
  • What is a ‘rejection game’ {it’s not what you think} and how playing it will help you develop both resilience in love and life AND attract higher quality partners.


Watch the 7 min video below and hit reply to let me know which one out of the 4 tips resonated with you most (and you will implement moving forward).

4 things I recommend you do before going back to dating



I am cooking up a NEW juicy FREE webinar “Dating for conscious woman in the modern world” 

Are you currently dating or about to take a step in that direction? If yes, please reply and let me know:

“What is your biggest CHALLENGE when it comes to DATING or starting the dating journey?”

Thank you so much in advance for your response, I would love for that webinar to be as helpful as possible for YOU and the kind of challenges you are facing.


All my love,


P.S. Been out of the loop and missed my recent videos! They are truly binge worthy, grab a cuppa tea and catch up here:

Episode #151: Can Faster EFT save your MARRIAGE (With Ilka Oster)?

Episode #150: Does committed relationship = losing your personal freedom?

Episode #149: How to heal the wound of an affair …

P.S.S. Did you know that I have a FREE Facebook group: “Tap in to Your Best Relationships”. If you’re not a part of this amazing community of conscious and supportive women I would love for you to join, if you have not yet. It’s a great place to get additional support from me on your dating and relationship journey. Here is that link again.

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